Unmarried Couples: Why Therapy Before the Ring Is a Brilliant Idea (That Could Save You Thousands Later)

So, you and your partner are head over heels in love. The future looks bright. The wedding Pinterest boards are filled with pastel colors and over-the-top flower arrangements. You’re dreaming of a lifetime of happiness, but here’s the thing: you might want to pump the brakes and put down that diamond-studded engagement ring. Before you say, “But we’ve been together for years and we’re totally fine!”, hear us out: therapy before marriage is probably the best decision you can make.

Yes, therapy. Before the “I Do’s.” I know, it sounds insane, right? But trust me, there’s no better time to unpack all those unresolved issues than before you sign that lifetime contract. This isn’t just advice from relationship experts; it’s also a reminder from countless divorced couples who now regret not doing it sooner. (And, trust me, the regret is real.)

“I Should Have Gone to Therapy, Not a Honeymoon”

Imagine the scenario: you’ve just gotten married, you’re dancing at your wedding, everything seems perfect. Fast forward two years, and you’re both in couples therapy, but now it’s less “sweet whispers” and more “why didn’t we talk about this before?” According to Kelly, who’s been divorced for five years, “If I had just gone to therapy…