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From First Date to Forever: How to Win the Heart of a High-Value Man

Vintage Vogue
5 min readNov 16, 2024

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So, you’ve got your sights set on a high-value man. Someone with power, influence, and a lifestyle most people can only dream about. But here’s the thing: attracting and keeping a man like this requires more than just looking pretty and playing nice. You need strategy, psychological insight, and, at times, a bit of manipulation. Let’s be real: dating a high-value man isn’t about being sweet and submissive — it’s about playing the game smartly.

Here’s how to use psychological techniques that will leave him hooked from the very first date, and make sure you’re the one he’s thinking about when the night ends.

1. The Art of Mirroring: Make Him Feel Like You’re His Perfect Match

One of the most powerful psychological tools in dating is mirroring. It’s simple: when you subtly mimic his body language, speech patterns, and even his mannerisms, he’ll subconsciously begin to associate you with feelings of comfort and trust. The brain naturally feels more connected to people who reflect our own behavior, making it a foolproof tactic in winning his attention.

If he crosses his arms, you might do the same. If he leans in, lean in slightly too. If he laughs at something, laugh at it as well — but don’t overdo it. This…

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